Supports Pillars: Related to: Self-Managing, Supportive Culture, Self Improvement Definition: Feedback
is information about recent interactions, offered with the intent of
strengthening working relationships and improving results. When people
engage in collaborative work and interact through-out the day,
frictions and disappointments are inevitable. Team members need a way
to address these events without resorting to the manager to sort things
out (which can resemble "tattle tale" and destroy trust) or complaining to an uninvolved third-party (similar to gossip). CN Seashore, EW Seashore, & GM Weinberg What Did You Say? The Art of Giving and Receiving Feedback Steps to Mastery:
Organizational Support: Many people have little or no experience giving direct feedback in a work situation and find it difficult to set emotions aside to either receive feedback or give feedback to others. Organizations can help people learn this skill by creating safe settings for learning and practicing the skill in several ways: 1. Peer-to-peer communication is preferred. Team members prefer to give feedback directly and positively. A team member who is given feedback about someone else encourages the giver to deliver the feedback directly, and offers to assist in the conversation. Passing feedback through a third party undermines team communication and should be avoided. 2. People with mastery of this skill can be available to role-play with a reluctant feedback giver. 3. When working relationships between team members are strained, peer-to-peer feedback may be facilitated by a third team member with sufficient mastery of the skill. Care should be taken to ensure that such facilitation is a learning tool and not a practice. 4. Social activities, either outside work hours, such as outings or meals, or regularly-scheduled brief exercises at work, such as personal checkins right before the day's stand-up, facilitate closeness and strengthen the sense of safety needed for direct communication. |
